How to treat the parent –child relationship
As we all know,our parents are busy at their work or let our grandparents raise us up so the relationship between parents and kids can’t pay more attention to communicate ,and day by day,the gap will be more and more deep in our daily life. In other words, not only the less time would stop our relationship but lack of communication.
Practically speaking, if you don’t spend enough time chatting with your parents,the relationship would be unfamiliar. For instance,if you always play computer games at home instead of talking with your parents in your leisure time, then your parents must get mad at you. As a result, you would think you are right but your parents are wrong cause you should have your own time.Thus, there are mistakes between your parents and you, that is what we called the gap.
How to get rid of gap is a vital part in our life. Firstly, you can pay more time with your parents such as going outside to relax after your parent off work, eating some delicious foods to make your heart beautiful, hanging out with them to buy some normally uses and so on, it is a warm way for you to increase emotion. Secondly, communicating more with your parents about your personal information , as your text scores, your hobby , even your emotional problems, they would like to give you advices cause they love you, they want you to live well. The lastly and more importantly, don’t be afraid of approaching ,it must be clearly for you understand that they love you and they would not do any harm to you. Although your parents are busy at their work more than take good care of you, the reason is that for you live better and better, they want to set a suitable situation for you. If you could start your own way to get close to your parents step by step, you would find the true love between your parents and you.
Therefore, try your best to improve the relationship and get rid of the gap, and listen more, care more ,do more. I hope all of us could find an easy way to solve such a sophisticated relationship, then ,get the gap off.
how to treat the parent-child relationship
