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sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. what's more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. what we can't neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. the best proof is the numerous divorces.
even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.
love has magical power that can exploit people's potential abilities, bring people's positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or
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the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ), and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liao-zhai ). love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yat-sen and madam song qingling; luxun and xu guangping). love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people's state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.
great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn't help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn't be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.
love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated
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from the heart, and expressed in actions. it can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. there's no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. some family love may turn into friendship. at the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. some friendship may develop into amatory love. the same is true with amatory love which may change into family love after a long time of mutual grinding and polishing.the closer the relationship, and the higher t
he expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. if handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings. the present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. most people hold a snobbish attitude. they only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. just as zhen shiyen said in his expounding of the song “all good things must end” in a dream of the red mansions “while men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed”. frankly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless.
love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. it is reported that an old man in jiangsu province left his million
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yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn't take care of him while the young housekeeper accompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years.
love is easily perceivable and perceptible. flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. if the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. never turn your love into the slave of money.
love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. we shouldn't judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. a chinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children. we are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. since there's no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. there's fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world. 在乌克兰的校园里长了一枝很大的玫瑰,同学们每天都来开心的欣赏。惊艳于这美丽而又硕大的玫瑰。谁都不舍得去摘,小心呵护着
一天早晨,校长苏霍姆林斯基在校园里散步。突然,她看见一个小女
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孩正在越过花圃的围栏尽力去摘那朵令人吃惊的玫瑰花。这时,苏霍姆林斯基立即叫住了小女孩,小女孩脸上露出惊恐的面色。这位校长看到小女孩的样子以后,不不仅没有严厉的呵斥,反而弯下腰,和颜悦色的问这个小女孩:“孩子,这么美丽的花朵,你一摘下来就会很快的枯萎的,你喜欢美丽的东西,就要懂得去好好的保护,更不能让我们喜欢的东西受到一点伤害。”
“校长大人,:我把这里有特大的玫瑰花的事情告诉了病重的奶奶,但奶奶就是不相信,所以我急得没有办法,想摘下来送给她看。不过你放心,奶奶看过以后我一定把花送回来,还有许多大哥哥和大姐姐们要看的!” 小女孩的一番回答大大出乎校长的意料之外,这个天真无邪的女孩子为了给病中的奶奶一个希望,不惜去“借”这玫瑰,他的内心深深的颤动了,他不仅没有批评这个小女孩,马上又摘了两朵大玫瑰花,对孩子说:“这一朵是奖励你的,你是一个懂得爱的孩子;这一朵是送给你妈妈的,感谢她养育了你这样的孩子。这三朵花都不要你还了,我代表学校奖励给你。” 小女孩高兴的捧着这三朵花,激动的连跳了几下。
“这下我奶奶高兴了!我可以把花一直放在她的床边了!”这声音一直飘荡在这位校长的耳鼓中……
这个真实的故事结局似乎出于意料之外,又合乎情理之中。是小女孩的天真成就了一个非常智慧的校长,还是一个校长成就了一个小女孩天真美丽的梦。是一个永远无法考证的话题。但有一点是那样的清晰。是“爱”铺就了花径,是爱弥漫了校园。
爱是桥梁,架起了师生情感沟通的绿色通道;爱是明灯,烛照了人生百态世相,荡涤横流物欲肆虐的心灵;爱是一部白库全书,诠释教师职业生涯的光辉。